Drawing your Magical Line

With all the gossips, back stabbers, ne'er do wells, and dastardly opportunists in the world, you’re bound to have a bad egg cross your path at some point; whether in the form of a sharp-tongued mother-in-law, jealous friend or unfair boss. Creating firm boundaries is the best way to protect yourself from their hooks and drains.

Drawing Your Magical Line

You’re a witch! Full of power and spunk, so use it! When dealing with someone who sucks your time, energy, or money, and takes advantage of your good intentions, it’s important to make your boundaries known. But if that effort is ignored, it’s time to draw your magical line. Banish the bitch. Banishing often comes with a negative connotation: dark work, an art practiced by “bad witches”. While banishing is a serious act, it is not inherently bad. Kicking a negative person out of your life for good is what protection is all about. It’s self care, and it’s enforcing your own worth. It’s realizing that you deserve better treatment than what you are receiving, and taking action to halt the cycle of psychic and or/physical draining you are caught in. It’s protecting your loved ones, because whether or not they are directly affected by this boundary crosser, the effect their disrespectful behavior has on you will eventually seep into your interactions with family and friends. Magic ain’t black and white, sweetheart, you gotta do what you gotta do to take care of yourself. Banishment is serious, but nothing is more serious than your peace of mind, and health, physically and spiritually.

Coventry Candles Make Banishing Easy

Our Blessed Herbal Candles are full of deep-working, transformative magic; the perfect tool to send your boundary crosser scuttling back over the line. The Needed Changes Blessed Herbal Candle energetically cycles through the relationships, habits and mindsets in your life, pulls any negativity to the surface, and helps you to cleanse it from your life; empowering you to decide what kind of energies and relationships are allowed on your side of the magical line.

Place a picture of your boundary crosser under or beside the candle, if you don’t have one, carving their name into the wax works as well. Then draw a line of chalk behind the candle. While you light the wick, envision that energy sucker right in front of you, moving backwards, until they disappear. When you relight the candle move it across the chalk line, symbolizing them stepping back from your boundary line, and with each relight move the candle farther from the line. After the candle has burned out, fire up a Protection Blessed Herbal Candle to keep future vamps and energy thieves away from your life. Happy Banishing!

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