Is it me? Or am I just that unlucky?

Have those words ever touched your lips? I’m betting yes. What’s going on here is evidence of some funky spiritual habits running amuck in your subconscious. It’s time to take authority over that mess and make some changes.

Hey, no worries, life gets away from us sometimes and before we know it we’ve stuffed our issues away to be forgotten (hopefully).

Bottom line, no matter how or why you are in the shape you are in, you can make some positive improvements to your life by letting go of the past, old habits, and for goodness sake, let go of that “poor me” attitude.

Uncross Energy by Clearing Destructive Behaviors

Your first move is to pick out a self-sabotaging behavior, looking it square in the eye and say, “I don’t need you, I don’t want you, and I certainly don’t want to ride this crazy train with you any longer.”

We’re going to go through this transformation the Coventry way with a few meaningful and thought provoking steps and then we’ll bring on the magic.

Step one: Choose the thing you are ready to let go of; to clear and cleanse from your body, mind, and emotions. Take your time and pick the thing you can really commit too. Be reasonable and choose an attainable goal. If you’d like to kick an addiction, make sure you are ready, and have lots of support in place to lean on when the craving hits or the triggers are launched. In this step you’ll want to burn a Truth and Justice Blessed Herbal Candle to help you choose.

Step two: Get ready for the change by forgiving yourself and any others for anything that has contributed to the situation. This will make it a lot easier to release it all in step three. Next, spend some time accepting yourself. All your ups and downs are good enough. In fact, you are quite lovable and worthy of love no matter what others have said to you or how they treated you. When you hear and feel the resistance to loving yourself and letting yourself be loved, acknowledge it. Gently say, “This is not who I really am, this is an illusion or distortion. I see you and now I let you go into the light.”

Most shifts we make have this emotional layer. Our compassion, patience, and open mindedness are needed. Go as slow as you need to and most importantly, be your own best friend. Don’t give up on yourself. During this step we invite you to burn a Spiritual Cleansing Blessed Herbal Candle. While it’s burning keep releasing your grief and pain into the light of the flame. It’s ok to repeat this step as many times as you need to.

Step three: Free the judgments, regrets, resentments, and lost potential by surrendering this outdated way of seeing yourself into the light. This is a very magical thing to do and is used by many self-help processes, the most famous one being the AA 12 step program. Make this a reverent moment for yourself by inviting the light in. Imagine that it’s right there beaming its brilliance and warmth right into your face just like a sunny summer day. Don’t forget the gentle breeze that cools you while you let all of your angst flow from you into the light. If you find it helpful to have a candle flame to represent the light for you, burn a Happiness Blessed Herbal candle during this step. It is bright yellow and is all about the sun and how transformational and life giving it is.

Step four: Create your new habits and make them good ones. Don’t let this be an exercise just in your unconscious. Bring your new found freedom up into your consciousness by creating an action plan to ground it in your reality. This action plan should be full of new behaviors, a positive attitude, and a support system you can lean on when the resistance and challenges come. They may come from within or from your world around you but you can be ready for them by making decisions ahead of time and committing them to memory. Keep a talisman in your purse or pocket that reminds you of the new direction you are going. A great mentor for this step is Ganesh. Light a Coventry Ganesh World candle and recite the prayer on the label daily to help you.

Four basic steps, some Coventry Creations candles, combined with lots of effort and commitment on your part will help you let go of the past and open up new pathways for success. Create the life you know you are meant to have.

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